Significance

There are actually varying meanings when taking into account the US and UK versions. No matter, it is quite clear that every passing year or every fifth year after the 20th anniversary is symbolized by more durable and lasting physical materials. This is in direct relation to the expected increased durability as marriage ages.

As couples spend more time together, there is an expectation that their relationship will develop towards the end goal of having unity between two entirely different people. This unity will  form the very foundation of the strength of the marriage. Length of time is usually associated with endurance and permanence.

My Say

As my husband and I celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary yesterday, we are thankful for the years that have been given us and are looking forward to spending many more years together. Although our marriage is far from perfect , we are grateful for the increasing clarity of our real goals as a married couple with every year that passes. The past year has been extraordinarily special due to our mutual decision to cultivate the spiritual dimension of our relationship with God.

That said, here's a toast to couples who continually struggle to make their marriages work in spite of the odds, including us.

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